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When A Kitten Attacks Your Leg...

When A Kitten Attacks Your Leg...

Imagine being a mouse.

You search for food,
while you stumble upon an interesting smell.

That interesting smell activates your senses.
The shock frightens you, & you freeze.

The smell was intrigiung, as well as scary,
but your unbound curiousity lead you to follow the road.

What a horror—It’s a little kitten.
Well, for you it seems huge.

This kitten, with it’s lizard like eyes…
She sees you and freezes too.

But immediately after that,
she jumps at you,
plays with you with her sharp claws,

You get dragged around, the claws penetrate your skin;
a bloody messy hell.

It’s horror.

A few seconds ago, you were innocently following your curiosities,
now you’re at the blink of death.

The funny thing is, the freaking kitten does not even eat you.
She just killed you for her own pleasure.

For her, it’s just play.

And when we see a kitten attack our legs,
we humans think it’s cute!



Love want’s us to grow

That’s the cruel truth about this universe.

And today you will learn why it is so important to embrace “unbound play”.

But also to learn to see beyond the human label of ”good” and “bad” through perspective change.

Because unbound play is the language of existence
jumping at the edge between “good” and “evil”.
Unbound play can turn into immense softness,
while at the same time into bloody violence.

Being soft and kind to each other is necessary.
But love encompasses more than luffy duffy.
Love is everything that this universe exists of, even the darkest parts.

Love want’s us to grow.

To let us grow, nature reflected this dual nature. Nature is loving and caring, yet demands the best out of us at the same time.

Nature can be brutal & rough.

Just as a kitten attacks your leg, & she doesn’t think about winning.
She is playful. She plays with her food.
She also plays with her human fellas.

We think it’s cute, the mouse on the other hand experiences brutal horror.
But it is our interpretation that makes it “good“ or “bad”.



Dancing on the Edge

We grow through the challenge of others.
If it is meant playful, we see growth as fun!

When we play with others without the intend of hurting eachother…

we give us the room to explore the boundaries,
we give eachother space to explore the edge.

The edge is the space in between good and evil,
where we are forced to expand our comfort zone and grow.

The edge is important to explore,
because where else are we allowed to be a bit evil for a good intent?

The expression “necessary evil” comes into play here.

The sheer necessity of a certain level of evil in play,
in order to keep the ball rolling.

Everything would be too soft otherwise.



The Kitten is not eating the Mouse

There is no reason at all
why the kitten started playing with the mouse!

Except for fun itself.

Embrace every new adventure in your life, without any attachment to an outcome.
Forget the outcome. Even when it is something very important.

If it is impossible to forget the outcome,
you can go the and except failure to release attachment.

Surrender.

Surrendering will get the desired result in the end, because you stop anxious attachment.

Read more about it here in Stop Being A Slave. Just Be Worthy.

All this will lead you to learn quicker.
The perfect mindset and attitude for a competitive environment.

I hope this helped,

Kiss Kiss,

Tarkan

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